Sometimes you just have to try something new. We have a new home (together), and we are building a new life (together). So, a new toy seemed like a great way to christen our new home. This time I decided to take on a new role as well.
I am rarely the top. Sure, I have my moments, but sometimes a girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do. A few years ago, I introduced my Love to the joys of anal pleasure. At this point, anal play has been reserved to a finger during a blow job or a
small anal plug during sex for him. When I decided to try something new, I knew I would have to be gentle. He doesn't make a good bottom, and he is firmly entrenched in his heterosexual mindset. Of course, neither of these things are bad. It just means that I have to find just the right toy.
The
New Comers Kit was a perfect start. With a lot of foreplay and a lot of a thicker lube such as my favorite for anal play,
Maximus, we were ready for some fun. I strapped on the dildo early to get used to the feeling and for him to get used to the sight of it. This was my fantasy, not his. While he is very open minded and very accommodating, this was a lot for him to mentally wrap his mind around. I took it slow because truth be told, I was nervous too. After all, I have never had a cock before, so the movement was slightly different.
The small cock penetrated him easily. Because of our height difference and
my preference for face-to-face anal sex, I took him on his back. I liked this because I could read his expressions to determine how fast or slow I needed to go. I also liked it because I could stroke his cock while I slowly fucked his ass. When I hit the right spot, I could feel his cock harden even more and the pre-cum to flow more readily. A couple of times, I ran my finger over the head of his cock and licked the pre-cum off my fingers. He relaxed as the sight of that aroused him more. With a few more strokes of my hand and my "cock" he came hard with long streams of hot cum pouring out onto his belly and the underside of my tits. After removing myself from him, I leaned down to clean up the mess I had created by licking all of the cum from his belly and the tip of his cock.
So how did the toy rate? First, it worked. It worked well. It was exactly what we needed for that fantasy. It's small girth was perfect my Love's first experience being fucked. However, it did take a bit of maneuvering and practice to keep it in place. Its length required shorter strokes to help it stay in place. The strap fit my wider hips just fine, but I wasn't fond of the nylon webbing as it cut into me and became uncomfortable towards the end, especially around my thighs. However, for the price point, this is easily overlooked. I probably will not put it on as early next time either.
Materials: Silicone is considered to be one of the safest compounds for plastic-type sex toys. It is easy to clean, and in my experience, it lasts a very long time. If I am going to buy a dildo that is made from something non-porous like glass or steel, it had better be silicone. I am also sensitive to certain materials such as latex. Silicone eliminates that worry for me and my partner. The strap is made of nylon webbing and a softly padded micro-fiber type material.
Aesthetics: The kit was just over $30, and it looked like a kit that just over $30. A simple strap system (that did stay put), and a fairly non-descript dildo. The o-ring can accommodate a slightly larger dildo such as my
Perk, but it cannot go any larger than that. I prefer non-realistic looking dildos, and I also think it helped to soothe my Love's feelings about this adventure as well.
Cleanliness and Additional Notes: Silicone is easy to clean with hot water and mild soap. There is never any odd smells or any concerns about bacterial growth. I found it a bit difficult to clean all of the lube off of the area around the o-ring on the strap. I hand washed it out of fear that it could not handle the washer, but I would have preferred to machine wash it to be more sanitary (even if only in my mind). One thing that I have learned is that Silicone has a natural friction to it. For anal play, I find that I have to use far more lube that I thought was possible and more than I would use for a glass toy or even a real cock. It just needs a little extra cushion with a nice thick lube.
Overall, I was happy with the New Comers Kit from
Eden Fantasys. It is a good price point for trying something new. It is uncomplicated and really is made for beginners. Enjoy!
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